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Becky Holmes

Author, Journalist and Fraud Expert

Popular talks

  • Romance fraud – what exactly is it? How and why is it still happening? Who is involved?
  • Coercive control – the similarities between romance fraud and domestic abuse
  • The importance of language – how the words that we use in business and our personal lives are helping fraudsters thrive
  • Social engineering
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Talks

Popular talks by Becky Holmes

  • Romance fraud – what exactly is it? How and why is it still happening? Who is involved?
  • Coercive control – the similarities between romance fraud and domestic abuse
  • The importance of language – how the words that we use in business and our personal lives are helping fraudsters thrive
  • Social engineering
  • Where UK banks are going wrong when dealing with victims of fraud

Biography

About Becky Holmes

Becky Holmes is an author, journalist, speaker and the creator of popular Twitter/X account @deathtospinach, which exposes fraudsters in humorous ways.

In 2020, having been on the receiving end of an annoying number of direct messages from online romance scammers, Becky started to enjoy wasting their time and publicly ‘outing’ their accounts. Six years later she is now a well-known expert on romance fraud, called upon by both professionals and the media. Her first book, Keanu Reeves Is Not in Love with You, received outstanding reviews from critics, journalists, counter-fraud professionals, comedians and everyday readers. Her second book, The Future of Fraud, which examines AI, cryptocurrency, social media and the dark web, hit the shelves in April 2026. She also sometimes writes for national press about fraud.

Becky uses humorous examples of her conversations with online fraudsters to shine a light on the darkest corners of the world of romance fraud. Examining the similarities between romance fraud and domestic abuse, she talks about coercive control and confirmation bias, gaslighting and shame. She also reveals the even lesser-known sides to this crime: human trafficking, voodoo and scammer pyramid schemes.

Her engaging way of presenting has an audience looking at all aspects of romance fraud, from the heartbreaking to the hilarious, the academic to the anecdotal and discusses where we’re going wrong when dealing with those affected and how the effects of these scams are more far-reaching than it would first appear. She uses real life cases studies to demonstrate everything she says.

She has become a regular guest on radio and podcasts around the world where she talks about all things romance fraud, whether that be with a light-hearted touch such as ITV’s This Morning or Richard Herring’s Book Club podcast or with a more serious tone as on Jeremy Vine’s BBC Radio 2 show or BBC Breakfast.

No other woman has had so many online romances – from Keanu Reeves to Brad Pitt to Prince William and she is a firm favourite with brave US peacekeeping soldiers and oil rig workers who desperately need iTunes vouchers or Amazon gift cards.

Testimonials

What clients say about Becky Holmes

"I am always humbled by the way Becky articulates the experience of victims so powerfully, and each time I hear her it motivates me to find ways for policing to do more and do better. Her presentation clearly resonated with the audience, and whilst she delivered it with a wonderful humorous touch at the expense of criminals, she still illustrated what a debilitating crime romance fraud is."

Deputy Commissioner, City of London Police

"Becky Holmes was incredible. Everyone in the company should have the opportunity to see this and listen to her presentation. Very valuable for all."

FIRE Starters Global Summit, audience member

"Becky's experience, knowledge and passion/enthusiasm made the topic very relatable to the audience. The content of her presentation was clearly well-researched and she made it bespoke to our business, whilst adding some well-received humour. Her voice was confident and she kept great eye contact with the audience which helped to build rapport. I would definitely recommend Becky as a public speaker."

Skipton Building Society

"Great visuals, fun and entertaining but with a serious message and advice."

FIRE Starters Global Summit, audience member

“Becky’s presentation to the London Fraud Forum had the audience of 200 counter fraud professionals left in awe of the work she is doing and really brought it home how scary romance fraud is but equally how simple it is. I met Becky before she was an author and was on the speaking circuit, and do you know what, as good as an author she is, I really miss her on the speaking circuit! I must be mad I hear you say, but unless you have heard her speak you won’t understand. As much as her outgoing, humorous personality comes over loud and clear in the book, it’s magnified in real life beyond recognition!”

Chairman, London Faud Forum

“Becky offers a refreshing insight into her subject matter area. She is a humorous and engaging speaker who can hold audiences’ attention throughout. She balances humour with a clear message and makes a serious topic an interesting and exciting one for all levels.”

Director of Financial Crime Operations, Ziglu

"If you ever find yourself at an event where Becky Holmes is speaking, do yourself a favour and go listen to her, you won't regret it!"

Head of Marketing at Trustfull

"Becky's presentation on romance scams was a real breath of fresh air at our event. She has a really engaging presentation style that took the audience on a journey with her as she brought real humour to a serious topic."

Event Producer, Transform Finance

"On behalf of all of us at Tech Show London, we would like to extend our sincerest thanks to for helping us deliver a hugely successful event! A week on, the audience are still raving about the sessions we curated with Joanna and Becky. It was a fantastic delivery from both of them. Becky is delightfully funny while balanced with a serious tone for the 'Romance Fraud' panel. She is a delightful person, too!"

How to book Becky Holmes

Answers on fees, availability and booking process.

How do I book Becky Holmes for a keynote speech?

You can book Becky Holmes through London Speaker Bureau by submitting the enquiry form on this page or calling our team. One of our consultants will respond promptly with Becky's current availability, speaking fees and any specific requirements for your event.

What are Becky Holmes's speaking fees?

Becky Holmes's speaking fees depend on the event format (in-person or virtual), the location, the length of the engagement and the level of customisation required. Please contact London Speaker Bureau for an up-to-date fee quote for Becky tailored to your event.

What topics does Becky Holmes speak about?

Becky Holmes speaks on Banking, Communication, Social Media. Talks can be shaped around your audience, industry and strategic objectives - share your event brief with London Speaker Bureau and we will work with Becky to align the content with your delegates and goals.

Is Becky Holmes available for international events?

London Speaker Bureau can book Becky Holmes for events worldwide, subject to Becky's schedule. Please send us your event date, location and format and we will confirm availability and handle travel and logistics on your behalf.

Does Becky Holmes deliver virtual or online keynotes?

Virtual and hybrid keynotes are now a standard part of the speaking industry. Please contact London Speaker Bureau to confirm whether Becky Holmes is available to deliver a virtual session for your event and on which platform (Zoom, Microsoft Teams, a bespoke studio or your own).

How long is a typical keynote by Becky Holmes?

Most keynote speeches run between 45 and 60 minutes, often followed by a 15-30 minute Q&A. Other formats - shorter conference slots, panel appearances or longer workshop sessions - may also be possible. Share your agenda with London Speaker Bureau and we will confirm what Becky can accommodate.

Can Becky Holmes tailor the keynote to our industry and audience?

London Speaker Bureau will brief Becky Holmes on your audience profile, sector and objectives so the keynote can be shaped around your event. The level of customisation possible depends on the speaker and the lead time - contact us with your brief and we will confirm what Becky can offer.

What languages does Becky Holmes present in?

Becky Holmes delivers keynotes in English. This profile may not list every language available; ask London Speaker Bureau to confirm. If you require simultaneous interpretation or a multilingual format, please mention this in your enquiry and London Speaker Bureau will arrange it for you.

What makes Becky Holmes a strong fit as a keynote speaker?

Becky Holmes's areas of expertise include Banking, Communication, Social Media. To get a clear sense of Becky's style, credentials and how they engage an audience, please review the biography, popular talks and any videos or testimonials shown on this page, or request a detailed speaker brief from London Speaker Bureau.

What kind of events can Becky Holmes speak at?

Becky Holmes can be booked through London Speaker Bureau for corporate conferences, leadership events, internal team meetings, association gatherings and private client engagements where expertise in Banking, Communication, Social Media is relevant. Details of Becky's background and previous engagements are included in the biography above; contact us if you would like a more detailed list of past clients or case studies.

Does Becky Holmes offer workshops, panels or fireside chats in addition to keynotes?

Beyond keynote speeches, many of the speakers on our roster also take part in workshops, executive masterclasses, panel discussions and fireside chats. Contact London Speaker Bureau with your preferred format and we will confirm what Becky Holmes is able to offer alongside or instead of a keynote.

How far in advance should we book Becky Holmes?

We generally recommend enquiring at least three to twelve months in advance to secure your preferred date with Becky Holmes, particularly during peak conference seasons. Where possible we also accommodate shorter lead times - please contact London Speaker Bureau to check Becky's current availability for your dates.

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